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Associate stuck working with difficult partners

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I am a first-year litigation associate at what many consider to be a top (and difficult) firm.  I am stuck working closely with two very difficult partners that always criticize my work and rarely give me any positive feedback.  I know that my work quality is not that horrible because other partners have told me that they heard my work product is very good and that these two partners are notoriously difficult to work with. I went to a great law school and graduated at the top of my class, but I am starting to doubt my intelligence and feel pretty miserable. 

 
Associate stuck working with difficult partners

I have started getting anxiety each time I have to hand in an assignment or answer questions, and I feel like my anxiety is starting to impact my performance.  I am reluctant to tell my colleagues how bad my situation truly is for fear of being seen as a complainer or a failure.

Is this what many big-firm associates deal with?  Will I have to just suck it up?  Please don't print my name or city.  (If you can't tell, I am just slightly paranoid!)


Answer:

I want to start by mentioning how courageous it is of you to share this question—I know that there are many attorneys who will be able to relate to what you are dealing with and will be comforted by seeing that they are not the only ones facing this type of situation. It sounds like you are going through a very difficult situation, but you are certainly not alone.

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